Thursday, October 17, 2024

Victim mentality as a cultural value or virtue

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Victim mentality as a cultural value or virtue

This is very true. This is a screenshot from this Reddit post [1] .

As for the first photo, yes, this is a very common occurrence among these monkeys: victim mentality. Compared to the decent people living in the rural areas, poverty has corrupted their culture in the cities. Ever wonder why generational poverty prevailed in the Philippines? It's a cultural trait to be fatalist in the country, thus rather than assert their rights they'd accept that they are bullied by their politicians, thus comes poverty. They are always the victim, and would rather twist the story to make it so even when clearly they are the wrong.

From a culture bred from criminality, whose values include falsehoods, mendicancy, incompetence and indolence, how low are your expectations from them? For example, in the second photo, the kid is clearly the criminal — most likely a Badjao, since these people are considered as pests by the majority — no one did anything to help the American.

I know expats are ridiculed online, and I too will do, but this one takes the cake.

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[1] https://www.reddit.com/r/Philippines_Expats/s/atpJLHpZjf 

What are the symptoms of kidney problems or disease?

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When it comes to kidney problems or kidney disease, the symptoms can vary widely, and they’re often subtle at first, which is why it’s sometimes called a “silent disease.” From my experience in general and preventive medicine, I’ve seen patients develop kidney issues that creep up on them, and it’s often only when things progress that the symptoms become noticeable. So, knowing what to watch out for early on can make a big difference.

Early Warning Signs

The kidneys play such a crucial role in filtering waste and balancing electrolytes in your body that when they start to have trouble, the signs can show up in unexpected ways.

1. Fatigue and Lack of Energy

This is one of the most common symptoms, and people often brush it off as just being tired from life’s demands. But if you’re feeling constantly drained, even after a good night’s sleep, it might be worth investigating. Kidneys help filter waste out of the blood, and when they’re not working properly, toxins start to build up, which can lead to fatigue and a general feeling of sluggishness.

I remember a patient in her late 40s who came in complaining of feeling “wiped out” all the time. Initially, we thought it was stress, but after some tests, it turned out she had early-stage kidney disease. Once we addressed the underlying issue, her energy levels improved.

2. Swelling in the Legs, Ankles, or Feet

Kidney problems often lead to fluid retention, which shows up as swelling in the lower extremities. The kidneys are responsible for maintaining the body’s fluid balance, and when they aren’t functioning well, excess fluids can build up in tissues, especially around the ankles and feet.

I had a patient who noticed that his shoes were suddenly tight, and he was having trouble putting them on at the end of the day. We ran some tests, and sure enough, his kidney function was impaired. The fluid buildup was one of the first signs.

3. Changes in Urination

This is a big one because your kidneys are directly responsible for producing urine. If you notice any changes in how often you urinate or what your urine looks like, take note. Some changes include:

  • Urinating more frequently, especially at night (known as nocturia).
  • Foamy or bubbly urine, which could indicate excess protein in the urine, a sign of kidney dysfunction.
  • Dark or bloody urine, which could suggest blood in the urine (hematuria), often a red flag for kidney issues.
  • Decreased urine output, even when you’re drinking enough fluids.

One of my patients came in because he was having to wake up multiple times a night to use the bathroom. Initially, we thought it might be a bladder issue, but after some tests, we discovered that his kidneys were not filtering efficiently.

4. High Blood Pressure

Kidneys play a key role in regulating blood pressure, so when they’re not functioning well, blood pressure can spike. In fact, high blood pressure can both cause and result from kidney problems, creating a bit of a vicious cycle.

I’ve seen this happen quite often with patients who don’t initially associate their high blood pressure with their kidneys. In one case, a patient in his early 50s had been struggling with uncontrolled hypertension despite medication. After investigating further, we discovered underlying kidney disease, which was contributing to his elevated blood pressure.

5. Metallic Taste in the Mouth or Ammonia Breath

When the kidneys aren’t filtering out toxins properly, those waste products build up in your bloodstream, and one odd symptom of this is a metallic taste in your mouth or breath that smells like ammonia. This is due to a buildup of urea, which the kidneys normally eliminate.

I had a patient who noticed a strange, lingering metallic taste and thought it was just due to some dental issue, but it was actually a sign that her kidneys were struggling to clear waste products from her body.

6. Nausea and Vomiting

As kidney function declines, waste products build up in the blood, leading to symptoms like nausea and vomiting. These are especially common in more advanced stages of kidney disease. It’s not always severe—sometimes, it just feels like mild queasiness that doesn’t go away.

I recall a patient who had been experiencing ongoing nausea for weeks. He chalked it up to indigestion or stress, but when we did some blood work, we found that his kidney function had deteriorated significantly.

7. Itchy Skin

Kidneys help filter waste from the blood, and when they aren’t doing their job, waste can build up, leading to skin irritation and itchiness. This is particularly common in people with advanced kidney disease, but it can occur earlier on too.

I had a patient with chronic itching, especially on her back and arms. She tried different lotions and creams, thinking it was a skin issue, but it turned out to be related to her kidneys not filtering waste efficiently. Once we started addressing the kidney issue, her skin symptoms improved.

8. Shortness of Breath

Kidneys play a role in balancing fluids in the body, and when they aren’t functioning well, excess fluid can build up in the lungs, leading to shortness of breath. Another factor is anemia—when kidneys aren’t functioning well, they produce less of the hormone erythropoietin, which is responsible for making red blood cells. With fewer red blood cells, less oxygen is transported throughout the body, leading to feelings of breathlessness.

I once treated a patient who came in complaining of feeling winded after just a short walk. She wasn’t overweight, didn’t have any known lung issues, but after a few tests, we discovered her kidney function was impaired, and she had developed mild anemia as a result.

9. Back Pain

Although not as common as the other symptoms, back pain (specifically in the lower back or sides) can sometimes be a sign of kidney problems, particularly if the pain is sharp or severe. This could indicate something like kidney stones or a kidney infection (pyelonephritis), which can be very painful.

I had a patient who came in with persistent pain in his lower back, thinking it was a muscle strain from working out. After running some tests, we found out he had kidney stones, which were causing the pain.

When to Seek Help

Kidney disease is progressive, meaning it gets worse over time if not addressed. The key is catching it early. If you notice any of the symptoms I mentioned—whether it’s changes in urination, swelling, fatigue, or high blood pressure—it’s a good idea to see your doctor. The earlier we catch these issues, the better the chances of slowing down any damage.

I always tell my patients: don’t wait until the symptoms become unbearable. With preventive measures and treatments, it’s possible to manage kidney disease and prevent further damage.

Practical Steps You Can Take

If you’re worried about your kidneys or want to keep them healthy, here are some practical tips:

  1. Stay hydrated, but avoid overhydrating. Drinking water helps the kidneys flush out toxins, but drinking too much water can also strain them.
  2. Limit salt and processed foods, as high sodium can increase blood pressure and strain the kidneys.
  3. Keep an eye on your blood pressure, as hypertension is a major risk factor for kidney disease.
  4. Avoid NSAIDs like ibuprofen for long-term use, as they can damage kidney tissue over time.
  5. Get regular check-ups and blood tests to monitor your kidney function, especially if you have risk factors like diabetes, high blood pressure, or a family history of kidney disease.

In my years of practice, I’ve seen how making small, consistent changes can lead to significant improvements in kidney health. It’s about being proactive and attentive to your body’s signals. And if something doesn’t feel right, don’t hesitate to get it checked out—it’s always better to catch issues early.

Live now, as you are.

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Imagine being 75 and you’re sat thinking about your life and how you never went swimming in the sea on a warm night because your thighs jiggled. Imagine realizing you never laughed until you couldn’t breathe because your teeth weren’t straight or white enough. You never embraced the sun on the beach because of the stretch marks on your stomach and your hips. You never allowed yourself to let go and have fun because the pressure to look perfect consumed you.

Imagine being 75 and realizing you’ve hidden yourself away for the fear of being real. Imagine realizing all the years you wasted hating yourself, but now it’s too late to go swim in the sea late at night. Now it hurts to laugh for more than a few seconds and you’re too weak to travel to the beach. Imagine realizing all this time you were perfect the way you were, but now it’s too late to do anything about it.

Don’t let that happen. Live now, as you are. You deserve to realize you’re enough and always have been, before you’re 75.

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Overcoming Plotting

October 17, 2024
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When Jesus left, the scribes and Pharisees began to act with hostility toward him and to interrogate him about many things, for they were plotting to catch him at something he might say. Luke 11:53–54

Over the past few days, we have been reading Saint Luke’s version of Jesus’ “Woe to you” rebukes of the scribes, Pharisees and the scholars of the law. Today’s Gospel concludes these rebukes of love by pointing out that these religious leaders did not convert. Instead, they began plotting against Jesus so as to “catch him at something he might say.” This is what happens when people use God's holy law as a weapon to attack.

Normally, we take inspiration from the Holy Scriptures in a positive way, meaning, by reflecting upon Jesus’ words and actions and applying them to our lives. However, we can also learn from the evil others commit and allow their actions to inspire us to avoid their sin. In today’s Gospel, we are invited to ponder the obsessive plotting of these religious leaders so as to consider whether we also are guilty of their sin.

First, note that at the conclusion of Jesus’ rebukes, these religious leaders “began to act with hostility” toward Jesus. Normally, when we act with hostility toward another, it is done with the mindframe that we are right and they have done something wrong. We justify our hostility by pointing to their perceived sin. However, it must be understood that every act of hostility on our part is a clear indication that we have started down the road of sin and are not justified in our obsession.

Notice also that these religious leaders exercised their hostility toward Jesus by interrogating Him. In other words, in their anger, they kept asking Him questions so as to find some fault with Him. They tried to trick Him and trap Him with their speech using God’s very Law handed down through Moses and the prophets. But they manipulated that Law so as to justify their hostility and, out of pride, to falsely accuse Jesus.

Think about any times in your life in which you found yourself somewhat obsessed with what you judged to be the sin of another. Hostility in this case can even be passive, meaning you may present a kind disposition on the surface, but interiorly you are obsessively thinking about how you can condemn the person. Often when this happens, we can feel justified in that we convince ourselves that justice must be done and that we are the dispensers of that justice. But if God is in control of our lives, He will not call us to obsessive plotting in regard to another. Instead, when we are following the will of God, we will sense Him inspiring us to act with immediacy, calm, joy, kindness, honesty, and freedom from all anger and obsession.

Reflect, today, upon any way that you have seen this misguided tendency within your own life. If you can identify a time when you struggled with hostility toward another, look at the fruit it bore. Was God glorified through your actions? Did this leave you at peace or agitated? Were you fully objective in your thinking? Be honest with these questions and you will begin to discover the road to freedom from such obsessive thinking. God wants you to be at peace. If there is injustice, trust that our Lord will sort it out. You, for your part, must continually work to forgive, act with charity, and direct your attention to the will of God as it is gently presented to you.

My patient and kind Lord, You were falsely accused and condemned by many of the religious leaders of Your time because You spoke the pure truth with love, clarity and boldness. When I act with hostility and anger toward another, help me to turn from these sins so that I will never condemn, never judge and never manipulate Your divine Law for my own purposes. Fill me with Your peace and charity alone, dear Lord. Jesus, I trust in You

Wednesday, October 16, 2024

What is the ideal diet for optimal brain function?

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An ideal diet for optimal brain function focuses on providing the brain with the nutrients it needs to support memory, cognitive function, mood regulation, and overall brain health. The key elements include healthy fats, antioxidants, vitamins, and minerals that promote brain cell growth, protect against oxidative stress, and support neurotransmitter function.

Here’s a breakdown of the best foods and nutrients for brain health:

1. Omega-3 Fatty Acids

  • Why it matters: Omega-3s, particularly DHA (docosahexaenoic acid), are crucial for maintaining the structure of brain cells (neurons) and promoting communication between them. Omega-3s reduce inflammation and are linked to improved memory, learning, and cognitive function.
  • Top sources: Fatty fish like salmonsardinesmackerel, and trout. Vegetarian sources include chia seedsflaxseeds, and walnuts.

2. Antioxidants (Especially Flavonoids)

  • Why it matters: The brain is highly susceptible to oxidative stress, which can contribute to aging and neurodegenerative diseases like Alzheimer’s. Antioxidants help protect brain cells from damage caused by free radicals.
  • Top sources: Berries (especially blueberries, strawberries, and blackberries), dark chocolate (rich in flavonoids), and green tea are packed with antioxidants that support memory and cognitive function.

3. Vitamins B6, B12, and Folate

  • Why it matters: These B vitamins are essential for producing neurotransmitters (like serotonin, dopamine, and GABA) and reducing levels of homocysteine, an amino acid linked to cognitive decline and stroke risk.
  • Top sources: Leafy greens (spinach, kale), eggschickensalmonliverbeans, and fortified cereals provide these important B vitamins.

4. Vitamin E

  • Why it matters: Vitamin E is a powerful antioxidant that protects the brain's cell membranes from oxidative damage, which is particularly important for reducing the risk of age-related cognitive decline.
  • Top sources: Nuts (almonds, hazelnuts), seedsspinachbroccoli, and avocados are all high in vitamin E.

5. Magnesium

  • Why it matters: Magnesium is essential for brain health, as it helps regulate neurotransmitters, supports synaptic plasticity (the brain’s ability to adapt and form new connections), and reduces stress.
  • Top sources: Dark leafy greenspumpkin seedsalmondsblack beans, and whole grains like quinoa and brown rice.

6. Choline

  • Why it matters: Choline is essential for the production of acetylcholine, a neurotransmitter involved in memory and learning. It also supports brain development during pregnancy and throughout life.
  • Top sources: Eggs (especially the yolk), beef liversoybeans, and cruciferous vegetables like broccoli and cauliflower.

7. Polyphenols

  • Why it matters: Polyphenols, found in plant-based foods, have anti-inflammatory and antioxidant properties. They promote brain plasticity and improve cognitive function.
  • Top sources: Olive oilgreen teaberriesred wine (in moderation), grapes, and dark chocolate are excellent sources of polyphenols.

8. Complex Carbohydrates (Low Glycemic Index)

  • Why it matters: The brain runs primarily on glucose, but it needs a steady supply of energy to function properly. Complex carbohydrates provide a slow release of glucose, preventing energy crashes and improving focus and concentration.
  • Top sources: Whole grains (oats, quinoa, brown rice), sweet potatoeslegumes, and vegetables provide sustained energy without spiking blood sugar.

9. Probiotics and Prebiotics

  • Why it matters: The gut-brain axis shows how gut health influences brain function. A healthy gut microbiome can improve mood and cognitive function by producing neurotransmitters and reducing inflammation.
  • Top sources: Probiotic-rich foods like yogurtkefirfermented vegetables (like sauerkraut and kimchi), and kombucha help support gut health. Prebiotic-rich foods, like garliconionsbananas, and asparagus, feed beneficial gut bacteria.

10. Curcumin (Turmeric)

  • Why it matters: Curcumin, the active ingredient in turmeric, has potent anti-inflammatory and antioxidant effects. It crosses the blood-brain barrier and is believed to enhance memory, reduce depression, and help protect against Alzheimer's disease.
  • Top sources: Turmeric spice, especially when consumed with black pepper (which enhances curcumin absorption).

11. Hydration

  • Why it matters: The brain is about 75% water, and even mild dehydration can impair cognitive function, concentration, and mood. Staying well-hydrated is essential for maintaining optimal brain performance.
  • Top sources: Water is the best source, but hydrating foods like cucumberswatermelonoranges, and broth-based soups can also contribute to fluid intake.

12. Iron

  • Why it matters: Iron is necessary for transporting oxygen to the brain, and iron deficiency is linked to impaired cognitive performance, especially in children and young adults.
  • Top sources: Red meatspinachlentilschickpeas, and fortified cereals provide good sources of iron, particularly when paired with vitamin C (like citrus fruits) to enhance absorption.

Key Dietary Patterns for Brain Health:

Several research-backed dietary patterns have been shown to support brain function over the long term:

  • Mediterranean Diet: This diet, rich in healthy fats, vegetables, fruits, whole grains, and fish, has been shown to reduce the risk of cognitive decline and protect against neurodegenerative diseases. Olive oil and fish provide beneficial fats, while abundant plant-based foods deliver antioxidants.
  • MIND Diet: A combination of the Mediterranean and DASH diets (Dietary Approaches to Stop Hypertension), the MIND diet emphasizes green leafy vegetablesberriesnutswhole grainsfishpoultryolive oil, and wine (in moderation). Studies suggest it can slow age-related cognitive decline and lower Alzheimer’s disease risk.

Foods to Limit for Optimal Brain Function:

Certain foods and dietary habits may negatively impact brain health:

  • Refined sugars and highly processed foods (like sugary snacks and fried foods) can cause energy spikes and crashes and promote inflammation.
  • Saturated and trans fats, found in processed foods, red meats, and high-fat dairy products, are linked to cognitive decline over time.
  • Excessive alcohol can impair memory and cognition, so moderation is key.

Conclusion:

For optimal brain function, focus on a balanced diet rich in healthy fats (like omega-3s), antioxidant-rich fruits and vegetableswhole grains, and lean proteins. Prioritize hydration and gut health, and avoid processed foods and excessive sugars. This holistic approach will nourish the brain, support cognitive health, and reduce the risk of neurodegenerative diseases over time.