1. BE SOLUTION ORIENTED
Never complain about anything. Ever. If you can change it, change it. If you can't change it, make your peace with it and move on. Life is too short to sit there being a victim. You have better things to do and time is running out.
2. BE OUTCOME INDEPENDENT
If you expect a girl to sleep with you, she can smell the desperation on you. If you talk to her with the goal of getting to know her and having fun, chances are it will go WAY better. Don't be desperate. Focus less on outcomes and more on process.
3. STOP LABELING YOURSELF
Blackpill, autistic, beta male, introvert, ADHD, hardgainer... These labels serve no purpose except to put you in a tiny little box and limit you. You have the power to excel at EVERYTHING. Never let a single word or label define you.
4. BE THICK SKINNED
Stop letting words and insults get to your head. If people figure out that you react negatively to certain phrases, they will abuse them continuously to get a rise out of you. Be cool and nonchalant. Never give losers the satisfaction of pissing you off.
5. AVOID INSTANT GRATIFICATION
We live in a world of cheap, quick pleasures: Press a button for food Press a button for sex Press a button for entertainment Everything is available at the press of a button. Resist the temptation, be focused, and seek long-term rewards.
6. STOP BEING RESENTFUL
Resentment is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die. You are psychologically torturing yourself by spending time and energy hating a person who isn't even thinking about you. Make your peace with the people who wronged you.
7. STOP SEEKING VALIDATION
Too many guys are motivated by external validation from people. When you live this way, your entire world collapses when others disapprove of or ignore you. If you find motivation internally, nothing in the outside world can sway you off your path.
8. BE MORE SOCIAL
Too many guys romanticize the idea of being a lone wolf. The truth is, you can only go so far alone. Having friends in high up places or a small group of diehard brothers you can depend on will MASSIVELY improve your quality of life and chances of success.
9. AVOID DEBATES AND ARGUMENTS
If you wrestle w/ a pig, even if you win you will exit the pen covered in shit. So next time you get the urge to type out an essay to someone online, take a moment to ask yourself if there are better uses of your time, energy and brainpower.
10. PAY ATTENTION TO YOUR EMOTIONS
Instead of getting angry, frustrated, sad, etc.. Ask yourself: WHY are you feeling this way? If you manage to find the source of your emotions instead of letting your mind be a feather in the wind, you gain an insane amount power and control.
11. SHOOT STRAIGHT
Avoid gossip and passive aggressive behavior. If you dislike someone, cut ties with them. If that's not possible, keep things civil and keep their name out of your mouth when they're not around. Don't be a weasel who slanders another man behind his back.
12. EMBRACE STRUGGLE
The most worthwhile things in life are the things you have to struggle for. NOTHING valuable will come easy or free. If it did, everyone would be a king. So instead of avoiding struggle, make struggle your best friend and see how your life changes.
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