If you hand someone something while they are talking, half the time they'll take it.
2. When walking in a crowded area, put your hand out in front of you as if pointing at something, people move.
3. Use phrases like 'Thank you for your patience' Instead of apologizing 'sorry, I'll fix it later'. It removes the blame from you and makes the other person feel better.
4. If you wanted something done a certain way suggest something very close but not quite right. Let them fill in the gaps and do the 'oh yeah but maybe like this instead?' Keep discussing until they land on what you originally wanted
5. If you're tired of swiping aimlessly in a sea of a thousand dates, it's a sign to be selective about the pool you're in.
6. If you ask 100 People to pick a random number between 1 and 10, a great deal of people choose 3 or 7.
7. Change the perspective from I to we and people will automatically align themselves with you.
8. Whenever you want to help someone with something but you know their pride gets in the way, just ask them for a favor first even if you don't really need it.
9. If someone doesn't want to give you specific information, like tuition costs, or hours expected, give them an example that's completely unreasonable. They will usually immediately give you an exact number and feel embarrassed for pretending not to know.
10. Asking people to explain what they mean when they're making offensive jokes. They'll feel a mountain of awkwardness and shame fall on them.
11. Nod your head up and down slightly when you want someone to agree with what you are saying.
12. If you are trying to reassure a person, never say "Everything will be fine", A person understands that everything will be fine in the future, but he expects a result at the moment. Try "I do not know how to help you, but if you know what you need, just say. I will do all my best." next time.
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