Sunday, August 31, 2025

What is it like to live in the Netherlands?

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What is it like to live in the Netherlands? There is no universal answer, obviously, I can tell what comes to my mind first after living 10 years here.

  • The infrastructure is good. Transport, roads, trans, mostly in good condition.
  • Transport is expensive. A single-use metro ticket (at the time of writing this text) is €3.40, and in Paris, for comparison, €2.50. A 40-minute train ride from Amsterdam to Rotterdam costs €19 in one direction - if you want a round-trip with your family to visit a museum, good luck - a train will be more expensive than the museum itself.
  • The Netherlands is one of the countries with the highest population density. A standalone house here is a luxury; even if you have a house, it will most likely be like this, with a “garden” about 2x3 meters:
  • If you don’t have money for a house, or don’t want higher maintenance costs, an apartment can be in a place like this:
  • Some expenses here are crazy high, for no obvious reason. A full-time kindergarten/daycare for your kid can cost 1300€ per month. Some people I know have a daycare for only 2 days per week because it’s too expensive.
  • The medicine is affordable (at least compared to the US, here you pay only about 150€/month for insurance) but slow - you must convince your GP to send you for extra analysis/checks if needed, and the waiting list in hospitals can be months long. I’m luckily healthy enough; some people got treatment in Germany or Belgium because it was faster.
  • Food is okay. It's better in France, Belgium, or Italy, but I don’t care too much; you can find everything in the supermarket.
  • Climate is boring. Summer is okay, but be prepared for the dark and rainy season from October to April. You wake up, it's dark, you come from a job, it's dark, and it's almost always wet. There were only 3 sunny days last December. It may be beautiful in the photos, but in reality, it's depressing.

Personally, I see some disadvantage of living here:

  • Western Europe is a desired place for millions. It can be 500 applicants for viewing the apartment for rent, and 100 applicants per job position. Good luck with that.
  • The cost of living is high. Taxes are also high. If you do a remote job, it will be a disadvantage for you compared to people from cheaper places. Let’s say, if some guy from India, Bulgaria, or Ukraine can do the job for 1500€/month, I physically cannot compete with him - in the Netherlands, it will be a level of poverty.
  • Salaries in Western Europe are, in general, higher. But (see previous item), considering the higher costs, it's mostly not an advantage for you - you also spend more. Especially in jobs that can be done remotely, there is a high chance that the job can (and probably will) be outsourced. Dutch businesses are good at calculating money.

In general, as a person who has a normal engineering 5x8 job and no social help or benefits, I don’t feel confident and safe here in terms of my future and job security.

PS: Last but not least, just a personal observation. I had a Tinder account for about 2 years, and I got likes from almost all countries. Except locals. No local woman will be interested in dating an expat, it's just not prestigious unless you’re not from the US or UK :)

Motivations of Love

August 31, 2025
Twenty-Second Sunday in Ordinary Time (Year C)
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“When you hold a lunch or a dinner, do not invite your friends or your brothers or your relatives or your wealthy neighbors, in case they may invite you back and you have repayment. Rather, when you hold a banquet, invite the poor, the crippled, the lame, the blind; blessed indeed will you be because of their inability to repay you. For you will be repaid at the resurrection of the righteous.” Luke 14:12–14

This Gospel passage goes to the heart of our motivations in life. Because of our fallen human nature, we can easily do what we do for selfish reasons. We want payment for our labors and acknowledgement for our acts of kindness. We want to get ahead in life and try to elevate ourselves over others. But Jesus makes it clear that our motivation for everything we do must only be the glory of God and the love of others.

The poor, crippled, lame and blind in this passage refer to those who are in need of our love. This certainly will include friends and family. When we encounter those in need, we must offer our love, not because we get something out of it, but because it is the right thing to do. The payment we receive in this case comes directly and exclusively from God. It’s not a payment of societal recognition or praise. It’s not a payment of material things. It’s not a payment that helps us get ahead in life. It’s a payment of grace that makes us holy. This is the only motivation we should have in life—a motivation for holiness by glorifying God through our love of Him and others.

Think about your motivations in life. Why do you do what you do every day? Clearly we all have certain responsibilities that must be met, such as earning a living, caring for the home and family, strengthening our relationships, etc. But why do you do these things? What is the source of your motivation? Is your motivation based on pure love?

When our love is pure, we are motivated to act in one way or another because we see that it is our holy duty toward God or an act that will benefit another. For example, a loving and holy parent will work hard to earn a living not because they want to get rich so as to indulge in the things of this world, but because they love and care for their family and want to provide for their material needs. Or a friend will seek to be there and listen to another friend not because it is advantageous for them, but because they love their friend and want to provide a listening ear when they need it. True love always looks at the good of the other, looking for the ways they are spiritually poor, crippled, lame and blind so that they can help them in accord with God’s will. True love always seeks to fill a void with what is needed at that moment.

The good news for us is that when our motivations are pure and selfless, looking only to glorify God and care for others, God will lavish upon us eternal rewards that begin now. We will grow rich in virtue and rich in the fruits of the Holy Spirit. We will obtain joy, peace, strength, courage, love, goodness and so much more. These good things are the true riches in life and can only be bestowed by God upon a soul whose motivations in life are pure, selfless, sacrificial and merciful.

Reflect, today, upon what motivates you each and every day. Do you think more about yourself when acting or more about God and others? Hopefully you will discover within your motivation a burning desire to serve others and glorify God in everything you do. But where you do see selfishness, know that this motivation can never fulfill you. Humble yourself by turning your attention to the love of God and the needs of others, and make serving them your exclusive mission. Doing so will result in God lavishing upon you more than you could ever imagine.

My merciful Lord, You came to earth to serve, not to be served, and to give Your life to others in an act of the most pure and holy love. I open myself to that gift of Your divine love and pray that, as I receive Your love, I may love You and others in the same selfless way. Jesus, I trust in You.

Saturday, August 30, 2025

Laugh Until you Cry

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In 1950, a young mother held her five newborn daughters in her arms. She smiled for the camera, hiding the fear in her heart. Her husband had left soon after learning she was carrying quintuplets, saying he couldn’t handle the responsibility.

She raised them alone—working three jobs, skipping meals so they could eat, pretending she wasn’t tired when her body was breaking. People told her she would fail, but she never once let go of her girls.

Years later, the daughters grew into strong, loving women. They never forgot the nights their mother cried quietly while they pretended to sleep. They never forgot how she gave up her own dreams so they could chase theirs.

On her 90th birthday, they surprised her with flowers and a cake. She looked at the five women surrounding her, each one now a mother themselves, and whispered through tears:

“I never had much to give you… but I gave you my life. And seeing you all here… it was worth everything.”

They hugged her tightly, knowing it was likely her last birthday with them.

As the candles flickered, they realized the greatest love story they had ever witnessed wasn’t found in books or movies—

It was written in their mother’s sacrifice.

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Sara Duterte: The worst education secretary ever

By Antonio Contreras
On the Contrary
The Manila Times
August 30, 2025

WHEN historians look back at the Ferdinand Marcos Jr. administration, one of its most embarrassing chapters will not be measured in pesos stolen or projects abandoned, but in the wasted years of our children’s education under Sara Duterte. Appointed to the Department of Education (DepEd) despite her obvious lack of interest in the portfolio, she has shown herself to be the worst education secretary in our history. That judgment is not merely the opinion of critics.

ACT Party-list Rep. Antonio Tinio, a longtime advocate for teachers, has openly declared her the worst education secretary ever. And even the Palace, through spokesman lawyer Claire Castro, could not disguise its exasperation when it admitted that she was a failure as secretary.

This is not a statement born of partisanship. It is borne out of evidence: hollow policies, misused funds, demoralized teachers and no vision for education. Every secretary before her, however flawed, at least attempted to grapple with the enormous responsibility of leading the largest bureaucracy in government. Sara Duterte, by contrast, treated DepEd as a political platform and war chest.

The tragedy began with her obvious lack of enthusiasm for the post. Everyone knew she had her eyes on the Department of National Defense, not education. She telegraphed her disinterest from day one, taking DepEd as an unwanted assignment. That disinterest translated into lackluster leadership. Education needs passion. Instead, the department got neglected. While past secretaries immersed themselves in curriculum reform, teacher training or access issues, Duterte was often away, attending political events and foreign trips unrelated to education. The top priority, it seemed, was not classrooms but her own political brand.

The defining mark of her tenure will always be the brazen attempt to justify confidential funds for DepEd. No secretary ever asked for millions in surveillance funds, as if schools were military targets. It was an insult to the sector. At a time when classrooms were literally collapsing, when children studied under leaking roofs, she demanded P150 million in confidential funds. This scandal revealed her priorities: not learning recovery, not fixing shortages, but weaponizing education funds for purposes best left to the imagination. The backlash forced a reallocation, but the damage was done. Trust vanished.

The Covid-19 pandemic left the Philippines with one of the worst learning poverty rates in the world. International assessments confirmed it: Filipino students ranked at the bottom in reading, mathematics and science. Any education secretary worthy of the role would have declared a learning recovery crusade, mobilizing resources to catch up an entire generation. Instead, Duterte’s initiatives were cosmetic. The Matatag curriculum rollout was rushed, shallow and lacked teacher preparation. She declared it a “milestone,” but teachers saw it as a shallow, press-driven reform.

Even worse, she never once articulated a coherent strategy to address learning loss. No major investment in teacher retraining. No bold innovation in technology integration. No national tutoring programs. Other countries raced to rebuild; the Philippines stood still, paralyzed by a secretary with neither the vision nor the will.

Teachers are the backbone of DepEd, but under Duterte, they became its most demoralized constituency. She often spoke down to them, once notoriously telling critics to “resign” if they were unhappy. Instead of empathizing with overworked, underpaid educators, she dismissed their grievances. The backlog in teaching supplies, the bureaucratic overload of paperwork and the low salaries remained unaddressed. Worse, her department continued to float vague threats of surveillance against “insurgency-linked” teachers, creating fear instead of support.

Recruitment into the profession has plummeted. More graduates avoid teaching because they see no future in it. That is Duterte’s legacy: the collapse of morale among teachers.

Every time DepEd failed, seen in shortages of classrooms, chairs or salary delays, Duterte deflected. She blamed Congress, past administrations, even parents. Rarely did she assume responsibility. Contrast this with Jesse Robredo in the Department of the Interior and Local Government, or Armin Luistro in DepEd, leaders who, right or wrong, owned the burden of leadership. Duterte, by comparison, perfected the politics of excuses.

Her defenders claim she inherited a broken system, which is true. But every secretary does. The job is precisely to wrestle with those broken parts, not to shrug and pass the blame. By hiding behind problems and offering no solutions, confirming her unfitness.

In truth, Duterte’s heart was never in education. The portfolio was merely a political placeholder until 2028. Every action she took, or failed to take, must be seen in that light. The confidential funds demand was about political machinery. Her absences were campaign prep. Even Matatag branding was mere sloganeering. DepEd became an extension of her political campaign.

The cost is staggering. Millions cannot read at grade level; dropout rates high; competitiveness lagging; teachers leaving for abroad. And yet, she could still jet around, pick fights and plan her electoral arithmetic.

Sometimes bad leadership is worse than none. Sara Duterte embodies this. Doing nothing would have been better. Her tenure harmed DepEd: diverting funds, distracting priorities, draining morale. She left DepEd unreformed, scarred by scandal and cynicism.

When her resignation finally came, it was not out of humility but calculation, jumping ship before accountability could be fully demanded. She left a mess, spreading blame to escape accountability. For the millions of students consigned to overcrowded classrooms and irrelevant curricula, however, the consequences are lifelong.

Sara Duterte will be remembered as the worst education secretary ever. Not just for failing to solve old problems, but for introducing new ones: weaponized funds, politicized DepEd, demoralized teachers. She presided over the greatest learning crisis of our era and chose self-interest over national duty. Tinio and Castro may have spoken bluntly, but their verdict only echoes the public’s own conclusion.

If there is one lesson to draw, it is that education cannot be entrusted to incompetent politicians. Our children’s future deserves leaders who see classrooms as sacred spaces where the nation’s destiny is shaped. The Duterte years in DepEd must be a cautionary tale: never again should the future of Filipino children be sacrificed to mediocrity.

Disclosure: Aside from being a professor at the University of the Philippines Los Baños, I am also the vice chairman of the board of state-run PTV Network Inc.

How is it possible that the more the West knows about Muhammad, the less they like Islam?

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Having read the Quran, I am not shocked by Muhammad.

Not one bit, in fact. One might say that Jesus is the more wholesome and pacifist of prophets and religious leaders. But if one were to look at the Old Testament, the Prophet Muhammad does NOT stand out at all. Not one bit.

No, reading up on Islam and researching it deeply hasn’t made me dislike the faith more. If anything, it makes me respect and admire the faith more. I have been a Christian for many years, I have been an undefined “searcher” for many more, and I have floated in and out of agnosticism time and time again… yes, I have dabbled in various faiths. And researched many of them. Theology has always interested me deeply and I love to dive into the origin of things. Judaism, Christianity and Islam have the same origins, share the same stories, each newer faith adding some of their own lore to existing religious dogma.

Was Muhammad a brutal warlord? Yes. Was he a fascinating historical character? Also yes. Was he worse than men like Moses, Abraham or King David? No, I don’t think he was. “The West” knows plenty about Biblical figures. A lot of them are gigantic arseholes. Kind of goes with the territory of leadership in troublesome times of conquest. By his era’s standard, Muhammad was almost benign.

Apart from the famous Colosseum in Rome, what are some other relevant, famous or noticeable amphitheatres in Europe?

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Note the difference between theatre and amphitheatre. An amphitheatre is oval, with the stage in the centre, from ἀμφί (amphi) = round.

Here a few:

Nîmes, France:

Arles, France:

Verona, Italy:

Pula, Croatia:

El Djem, Tunesia:

Merida, Spain:

Tarragona, Spain:

Trier, Germany:

Here is a map of amphitheatres:

Gifts of the Holy Spirit in Superabundance

August 30, 2025
Saturday of the Twenty-First Week in Ordinary Time
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“The one who had received five talents came forward bringing the additional five. He said, ‘Master, you gave me five talents. See, I have made five more.’ His master said to him, ‘Well done, my good and faithful servant. Since you were faithful in small matters, I will give you great responsibilities.’” Matthew 25:20–21

Oftentimes, when we are presented with a story of success versus tragedy, our attention goes to the tragedy first. The parable we are given today, the Parable of the Talents, presents us with three persons. Two of the people display stories of great success. One, however, offers a story that is more tragic. The tragic story ends by the master telling the servant who buried his money that he is a “wicked, lazy servant!” But both of the success stories end with the master saying, “Well done, my good and faithful servant. Since you were faithful in small matters, I will give you great responsibilities.” Let’s focus upon these success stories.

Both of the servants who were successful doubled the master’s money. Even from a secular point of view, that is very impressive. If you were investing money with a financial advisor and shortly after investing you were told that your money had doubled, you’d be quite pleased. Such a rate of return is rare. This is the first message we should take from this parable. Doubling the gifts and graces God gives us is very doable. The reason for this is not primarily because of us; rather, it’s because of God. By their very nature, God’s gifts to us are meant to grow. By its very nature, grace flows in superabundance; and, when we cooperate with God’s grace, then it grows in an exponential way.

When you consider your own life, what gifts has God given to you that He wants you to use for His glory? Are there gifts buried away that remain stagnant or, even worse, are used for purposes that are contrary to the divine plan for your life? Some of the more obvious gifts you were given within your very nature are your intellect and will. Additionally, you may be extra-talented in one way or another. These are all gifts given on a natural level. In addition to these, God often bestows supernatural gifts in abundance when we begin to use what we have for His glory and for the salvation of others. For example, if you work to share the truths of our faith with others, God will begin to deepen your supernatural gifts of Counsel, Wisdom, Knowledge and Understanding so that you will be able to speak about God and His will. All seven of the Gifts of the Holy Spirit are among the clearest examples of supernatural gifts given by God as follows: Wisdom, Understanding, Counsel, Fortitude, Knowledge, Piety, Fear of the Lord. The prayer that concludes this reflection comes from a traditional novena to the Holy Spirit and not only asks for these gifts but also gives a short description of them for a better understanding. 

Reflect, today, upon the fact that what God has given to you, both on a natural and supernatural level, must be devoted to the service of God and others. Do you do this? Do you try to use every talent, every gift, every part of who you are for God’s glory and the eternal good of others? If you don’t, then those gifts dwindle away. If you do, you will see those gifts of God’s grace grow in manifold ways. Strive to understand the gifts you have received and firmly resolve to use them for God’s glory and the salvation of souls. If you do, you will also hear our Lord say to you one day, “Well done, my good and faithful servant.”

Oh, Lord Jesus Christ, grant me the Spirit of Wisdom, that I may despise the perishable things of this world and aspire only after the things that are eternal; the Spirit of Understanding, to enlighten my mind with the light of Your divine truth; the Spirit of Counsel, that I may choose the surest way of pleasing God and gaining Heaven; the Spirit of Fortitude, that I may bear my cross with Thee and that I may overcome with courage all the obstacles that oppose my salvation; the Spirit of Knowledge, that I may know God and know myself and grow perfect in the science of the Saints; the Spirit of Piety, that I may find the service of God sweet and amiable; the Spirit of Fear of the Lord, that I may be filled with a loving reverence towards God and may dread in any way to displease Him. Jesus, I trust in You.