I met my fiancee on rosebrides.com. I met several women in a very short time, and I was interested in one, but it became very apparent that she was attempting to scam me. (was before I met Weng ) Some things to really look out for.
1: If she communicates with you via only e-mail, says she has to go to internet cafe, as she does not have a computer at home or a cellphone, but sends you studio quality professional photos…she is probably trying to scam you. I have been to the Philippines and can assure you, with the exceptions of the very poor on remote islands, EVERYBODY has a cell phone. If she makes excuses as to why she cannot video call with you…move on to the next.
2: “My mom/dad/grandma is sick and needs medicine., now if she asks you once after you and her have been communicating via video call for quite a while and you have seen her family via video call, and you have seen her elderly, sick grandma, sure help out the family, one way of gaining immense respect from them. Weng's tita (aunt ) is a school teacher and the students desks needed painting. I sent $20.00 and it got all the desks painted. It really helped the community and she sent pictures. But generally, don’t send money, if she really wants a relationship with you, she will not ask for money other than rare occasions.
3: “We should meet “ (pay special attention, one tried it with me )
So you two discuss who should travel to finally meet. She suggest “I should come to visit you first it will be easier and cheaper “ BLOCK HER IMMEDIATELY and move on. It is NOT cheaper, it is NOT easier for her to visit you. Just for a B2 tourist visit, she has to show that she has a steady job, she has enough money in her bank account to cover travel expenses as well as lodging and accommodations, not to mention she has to own land. In a nut shell, she would have to show the U.S. Embassy that she has reasons to return to her home country. It’s easier to get a Fiancee Visa than a tourist visa. Go and visit her! it will be a really good experience and you will get to meet her family and bond…you will get a sense of how genuine she really is.
4: Don’t send money to the family. The economy is not as bad as most think. I know it’s been hit hard from Covid, but it was one of the strongest economies in SE ASIA with a 6.4% economic growth rate. Manila would put NYC to shame and there is a population in Manila alone of 11 Million people. People are not suffering as bad as others claim. Weng is from the province, a small town, and the local economy is not bad at all.
Anyway, I was on rosebrides.com for about three weeks and I met Weng and we hit it off, we video chatted everyday, several times a day, I flew out to the Philippines and spent a week with her, as well as meeting many of her family members. We feasted on Lechon, and I bonded with the family. Was blessed by Lola Rosing (Grandma) and accepted into the family. You will know it once you find “ The One “ and you will have a truly wonderful woman in your life.
Weng and I are in the K1 visa process now and will marry 2021.
She is an incredible woman, loving and selfless, attentive, and grateful for having me in her life, as I am so grateful and blessed to have her in my life.
Magandang buhay (Beautiful life)
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