Have you ever heard of the word “KARMA?” It will all come back to haunt him; that is his problem, not yours. Don’t own his problem.
I married my wife for forty years before her passing in 2015. Not once did I ever cheat on her. Yes, there were some other issues, mainly those I had been dealing with for many years. Before my wife died, she gave me her last advice. “Do not look for love; it will find you when ready. Find yourself first.”
For the first five years, I existed. I was raising my oldest grandson/grandchild, and I had been doing so since he was a baby (along with my late wife). I had vowed to my late wife that I would never repeat what my adoptive father (Ray) had done to Delilah (adoptive mother), and that was cheat on her. I kept that vow for forty years. In those first five years, I had to learn to like who I was and love myself. I’m still a work in progress.
After five years, my life dramatically changed. If you read other posts of mine, you will notice that I came out openly gay after my wife died. She knew and knew I loved her enough to never act on it. I had accepted the fact that I would go to my grave and never be the person I was inside. I put myself out for dating, then met the man who captured my heart. He was also a widower, and he never cheated on his wife. He is now my husband and my grandson, and we adopted him in 2021 when he was nineteen.
I have had several people who hurt me deeply. I learned to leave it up to Karma. If you want to call it revenge, this works too. I was told I would never be smart enough to go to college, let alone make good enough grades to graduate. I was called stupid, idiot, moron, and imbecile. I did get the sweetest revenge. I started college at fifty-two, and shortly before my sixtieth birthday, I had earned two undergrad degrees and an MAED. That’s the revenge I got on them. I didn’t do it for them; I did it for myself.
Tell your ex-boyfriend to go KYA (Kiss Your A##). Do not let what he did to you rob you of yourself. He isn’t worth it. You are better than that. It is your happiness that is worth it. That’s my advice.
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