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- People who when shown kindness literally don’t know how to take it.
- I find people who have been through some shit have a great sense of humour. Possibly a coping mechanism but some of the funniest people I have met have had a hard life.
- People who've faced tough times might show signs like being very cautious or guarded, struggling to trust easily, or having a strong sense of independence. They might also have a deep empathy for others' struggles.
- They tell you a story they think is funny and it's actually just trauma.
- Staying unnaturally calm in situations when everyone is jumpy. Being somewhat indifferent most of the time. Remain unresponsive to little harm.
- They have lots of advice that sounds really genuine and you can tell it from their voice.
- They constantly apologize for things that aren't their fault and massively overexplain things in an effort to keep others from getting upset.
- Their eyes. Their eyes can really show their pain.
- They can be compassionate and empathetic because they've walked in those shoes or they are harsh and overly critical as a defense mechanism.
- Being unable to let your walls down and actually trust someone is a sign of trauma.
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