Posted by Updated May 12
- Cheat on a good man. That will not only destroy a man emotionally but physically too. Leave if you're not happy but never cheat.
- All men are unique. Don't compare your man to another man. It will only make him insecure. It will leave him disheartened and deflated. Love him for who he is and cherish him wholeheartedly.
- If he doesn't want to, he doesn't have to. Don't force a man to do anything he doesn't want to. Some men are really nice. Some will give in to whatever their partner says just to keep them happy. But it will only damage him in the long run.
- Never tell him 'he's ugly' because that will ruin his self-esteem significantly and hurt him immensely especially if he adores you or even if he doesn't know you.
- Same goes with humiliating him in public or private. Build his integrity and pride but don't diminish it. Don't humiliate him to an extent he can't face himself. Don't leave him feeling ashamed of himself.
- Treat him like rubbish. If a man treats you right, it doesn't mean he deserves to be taken for granted. Don't leave a man feeling worthless. Respect him. If he treats you like rubbish, leave him. But don't play revenge.
- Use what he loves to blackmail him or manipulate him. What a man loves holds great value. And, if that is used as a means to gain something from him, it will destroy his heart.
- Play with a man's feelings. Some men don't deserve heartbreaks especially if they love you dearly. Good men are rare.
- Kick him between his legs because he made you angry. Your anger will last for some time but his pain will last longer on an emotional and physical level.
- Leaving him in the dark confused and anxious. It's the same as putting him in a room where he can't escape. Don't close all doors on him and expect him to find answers. Be real and to the point. Leading one to insanity is cruel.
- Don't play games if your intentions are not genuine. Sometimes, words and actions can leave people hurt, scarred and miserable for life.
- Making him choose between you and someone who means the world to him such as his mother. A real woman doesn't do that, she makes a place in his heart without causing him unnecessary stress.
- Insulting him and his flaws. Nobody is perfect. We all make mistakes and we all have our insecurities. But making fun of something someone has no control over is emotionally abusive and will leave him feeling emotionally unstable.
- Be a burden. A woman should never be someone a man can't tolerate even for a minute. Someone that is too demanding, pressurising, negative and extremely stubborn.
- Control all aspects of his life. Tell him what he should and shouldn't do. He isn't your dog. He isn't your slave. He is your partner. Two people that have come together as one. A bond knotted with love and compassion.
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